Assalamualaikum to all of you!
I hope everyone having a good day today.
BOY ADVICE : RELATIONSHIP WITH GIRL
COME ON! These relationship that you think are so awesome and you know why?! I'll fill you in a little. Especially the teenager in the readers and the young people who kinda just recently kind of shot an email or somebody emailed them back and a little FB thing happened. You know little wink here and there is playground even though its a saperate school but in reeses we saw each other "Hee hee hee"😆😶Grinning like a little bit of that happened. Let me just fill you in a little, you know all of these a product of low self esteem. (GIRL)You think you're ugly. So if the guy think you're cute, then You are like "urghh reallyyyy? I'm beautiful!"😃. You know? You have low self esteem! You think no body is going to like you, no body is going to marry you and all that stuff. And on the other hand,GUY. We don't have good friendship and good relation and we're looking for something. And most of the guys, I don't have to tell you what's going on in your head. You and I have sense on this issue the things that goes in our head. There's no reason for me to explain all of that to you. But you know just because you have raging hormones and you're like day dreaming about girls and things like that. It doesn't mean that you're in love. It just mean you haven't controlled your temptation yet. And you're ruinning somebodies life. You're ruinning an entire family!. Do you realize what you are doing? And you call it LOVE? You tell me if she was 50 pounds fatter. You did still be in LOVE? Because she is same person, same rooh inside her jasad right? If she was a burn victim or something. If her hand burnt off or her ear was missing. You did still be in LOVE? Or You would find somebody else to love all of a sudden?! And if you can't answer that question, honestly then, come on, you're not in love!, you're just hormonal, thats all you are, you KNOW!!? This is what we're done to relationship that are supposed to be beautiful, MARRIAGE is supposed to be a beautiful relationship. It's supposed to be a life long relationship. But because you're watching all of these models on tv and stupid like, women that are just throwing themselves at men and all this stuff....and you have developed this delutional concept of what it means to have love in your life. Delusional concept......our deen came to free the world from this non-sense to free it. Because we have a more mature understanding of what it means to have love in your life, you know? Im not saying you shouldn't marry someone you like, You should! You should be attracted to your future spouse, all of those things are fine. BUT! There is a decency that you have to exhibit before that. And if you're okay with talking to a girl like that,then you should be okay with somebody talking to your sister, You're okay with that too??? Not if you have any ounce of deceny left inside you....If you do then, you know....this is how we have to, we have to end these things and if you have been that kind of relationship or you're in one of those relationship right now...nobody knows. Only Allah knows and you know, don't raise your hand pleaseee. But Im saying , you are like-> "After todays lecture, I've decide that I no longer want to be your friend". Don't even write that cause even then you are looking for a response, you're kidding yourself and then you're checking, did she write back? "Yes we should no longer be friends" and you'll write back "You're right, we really shouldn't be friends anymore" and then she will write "Yah,never again" and then you'll write the same thing again and again....You're still doing it! Just stop, just cut it off, its not good for you. And guys, I've done a whole series on shame, so I won't repeat the whole thing cause it took hours and hours but I will tell you this👉 It's okay to be attracted to a girl, Allah put that in you, you're not evil for finding a girl beautiful. It's not haram for you to feel that way, you have to control it, you have to control yourself. Our deen teaches us self control and if you cannot exhibit self control in one aspect of your life, you will lose self control in other aspects of your life. Same thing for you(Girls) control yourself, control your giggle,control your overly friendly demeanor in certain situations. Don't be oblivious, don't just say we're friend or he is like brother to me. If he aint brother, then he aint your brother, that is it. Either he is your brother, you share a mom or he's not and that is the END.
THE WORLD WILL NOT CHANGE UNTIL YOU CHANGE^-^
[WorldwideReaders]
I hope everyone having a good day today.
BOY ADVICE : RELATIONSHIP WITH GIRL
COME ON! These relationship that you think are so awesome and you know why?! I'll fill you in a little. Especially the teenager in the readers and the young people who kinda just recently kind of shot an email or somebody emailed them back and a little FB thing happened. You know little wink here and there is playground even though its a saperate school but in reeses we saw each other "Hee hee hee"😆😶Grinning like a little bit of that happened. Let me just fill you in a little, you know all of these a product of low self esteem. (GIRL)You think you're ugly. So if the guy think you're cute, then You are like "urghh reallyyyy? I'm beautiful!"😃. You know? You have low self esteem! You think no body is going to like you, no body is going to marry you and all that stuff. And on the other hand,GUY. We don't have good friendship and good relation and we're looking for something. And most of the guys, I don't have to tell you what's going on in your head. You and I have sense on this issue the things that goes in our head. There's no reason for me to explain all of that to you. But you know just because you have raging hormones and you're like day dreaming about girls and things like that. It doesn't mean that you're in love. It just mean you haven't controlled your temptation yet. And you're ruinning somebodies life. You're ruinning an entire family!. Do you realize what you are doing? And you call it LOVE? You tell me if she was 50 pounds fatter. You did still be in LOVE? Because she is same person, same rooh inside her jasad right? If she was a burn victim or something. If her hand burnt off or her ear was missing. You did still be in LOVE? Or You would find somebody else to love all of a sudden?! And if you can't answer that question, honestly then, come on, you're not in love!, you're just hormonal, thats all you are, you KNOW!!? This is what we're done to relationship that are supposed to be beautiful, MARRIAGE is supposed to be a beautiful relationship. It's supposed to be a life long relationship. But because you're watching all of these models on tv and stupid like, women that are just throwing themselves at men and all this stuff....and you have developed this delutional concept of what it means to have love in your life. Delusional concept......our deen came to free the world from this non-sense to free it. Because we have a more mature understanding of what it means to have love in your life, you know? Im not saying you shouldn't marry someone you like, You should! You should be attracted to your future spouse, all of those things are fine. BUT! There is a decency that you have to exhibit before that. And if you're okay with talking to a girl like that,then you should be okay with somebody talking to your sister, You're okay with that too??? Not if you have any ounce of deceny left inside you....If you do then, you know....this is how we have to, we have to end these things and if you have been that kind of relationship or you're in one of those relationship right now...nobody knows. Only Allah knows and you know, don't raise your hand pleaseee. But Im saying , you are like-> "After todays lecture, I've decide that I no longer want to be your friend". Don't even write that cause even then you are looking for a response, you're kidding yourself and then you're checking, did she write back? "Yes we should no longer be friends" and you'll write back "You're right, we really shouldn't be friends anymore" and then she will write "Yah,never again" and then you'll write the same thing again and again....You're still doing it! Just stop, just cut it off, its not good for you. And guys, I've done a whole series on shame, so I won't repeat the whole thing cause it took hours and hours but I will tell you this👉 It's okay to be attracted to a girl, Allah put that in you, you're not evil for finding a girl beautiful. It's not haram for you to feel that way, you have to control it, you have to control yourself. Our deen teaches us self control and if you cannot exhibit self control in one aspect of your life, you will lose self control in other aspects of your life. Same thing for you(Girls) control yourself, control your giggle,control your overly friendly demeanor in certain situations. Don't be oblivious, don't just say we're friend or he is like brother to me. If he aint brother, then he aint your brother, that is it. Either he is your brother, you share a mom or he's not and that is the END.
THE WORLD WILL NOT CHANGE UNTIL YOU CHANGE^-^
[WorldwideReaders]
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